Thursday, July 16, 2009

Introducing: Olivia

Some of you may have noticed the previous picture of Oliver wearing a pink princess dress and tiara. Well, in her quest to fulfill the desire for a little sister, Dahin began putting bows in Oliver's hair and dressing him up in her clothes. He's taken this and is running with it: now, he puts bows in his hair and dons earrings (he hooks them around the inside cartilage of his ear) and refers to himself as Olivia. The other day at the swimming pool he asked me to put a little pony tail on the top of his head (a la cupie doll) and kept it in much of the time. I am not too worried about my little Ed Wood however. He refused to keep some pink erasers that he got from a classmate for a birthday gift, claiming they were too 'girlie' and gave them to Dahin. I said, "What was that, OLIVIA?!?" He just smiled. Ah, touche.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Rain, Rain Go Away...

It has been raining, and raining, and raining. Not just drizzle and overcast skies; I'm talking about buckets of rain, relentlessly falling and getting everything soaked. I've been keeping fans on to circulate air inside and turning on the air conditioner to kill the humidity indoors a bit (although, due to the rain, the weather is not hot and there is no need for cooling the air). On weekends with the kids, this gets challenging. The staying inside, I mean.
So, to get out of the house and do something, we took a trip to the National Museum. Actually, our initial goal was to go to the National Children's Museum (which is located inside the National Museum), but it seems everyone else had the same idea and we couldn't get entry because it was full. No wonder they recommend online reservations--despite the fact that it's free--before attempting visit on the weekends; especially rainy weekends.Above, Dahin and Oliver pose with defenders of the Dharma, four of the eight Buddhist guardians. Despite my hopes for a culture-filled afternoon, I faced those-who-think-everything-that-is-not-tv-is-boring, coffee-seekers, and the "I'm tired-s". Oliver was the only one into being there, besides me. So, after finding Jack's much needed coffee shop (shots below) where the kids ate some gelatto and Jack got his latte, Oliver and I separated ourselves from the grumpy bunch and did some touring of our own. We almost made it through an entire documentary on Buddhist pilgrims, walking and bowing their way from Yunan to Lahssa, before the whiners found us and won the battle of boredom. On our way to find another cultural giant, McDonald's (the first time we'd gone there for a meal since coming to Korea; good that McDonald's is rather inconvenient here as it can be a special occasion 'fun' meal instead of something we have often), we discovered that the Han River had flooded into the Han River Park. Below, you can see that it has swallowed the trees on its banks (no, we don't live in the cypress swamps, people) and is close to covering a set of basketball goals. News crews were out filming the flooding.

Ah...we made our way to McDonald's at last where I was reminded why I was glad we don't eat there. First of all, it was dirty. Second of all, pleather lounge-type chairs and small tables were set up for eating. I found this a little icky. Don't know why; just did. And, true to form, it tasted just like home (greasy) and provided little pink plastic toys made in China that the kids fought over despite having the exact same toy. Speaking of China, the two Chinese people sitting by the window behind the kids and a whole group of Chinese people were just hanging out and not eating on the second floor (where we were eating) --ok, a couple of them had obviously eaten at one point, but others in the central part of floor 2 had no food containers, drinks; nothing. It was a bit creepy only because they were just hanging out there and not talking to each other; it would have been different if there were just eating or having conversations. But, they acted as if they were waiting for something and just sat there, and sat there, and sat there. We were sure they were Chinese after a while because occasionally you'd hear one them speak. But we pegged them initially because of the way they were dressed: worse than an ajuma who'd dressed in the dark and worked at Namdaemun at the break of dawn (I'm talking polyester, checks with stripes and other loud patterns, ill-fitting and baggy pants, eighties hair, and farmer-style baseball caps on a couple of the men). A couple of the women strolled around and stared at people (including our kids--I shot nasty looks back--ok, I'm really mean, but they were creeping me out). Something was up and it seemed unsavory. What was weirder was that it was in the McDonald's in Gangnam--a well-to-do-area where you don't see a lot of Chinese or Japanese 'tourists' (they tend to stick around Myeongdong and other parts of central Seoul). Anyway, we ate and left. I'm getting tired of the rain.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Buddy Update

The apartment association located a veterinary clinic in the country (a good three hours from Seoul) that agreed to take Buddy in for 10 days. The vet said that he had a yard and a couple of big dogs and, if the dogs liked Buddy and Buddy seemed to adjust well, he would keep Buddy. Otherwise, he would find a home for him. He said finding a home for Buddy would be easy since Buddy is a golden retriever (a designer dog) and most farmers there would not be able to afford a dog like Buddy. The likelihood of the vet adopting Buddy is high, however.

Buddy's presence was great for the kids, but, at the same time, he was so bored. Tied up all day, he would see someone and jump up and down. Many times, he jumped on kids and scratched them, which made parents believe he was dangerous. It was obvious Buddy was not dangerous, just in desperate need of attention and exercise. I had considered taking him in, but a dog that size needs space to run in. Plus, I can't take on a 5th child (yes, I am including Jack in that number). I am really happy to know he is now in the country, possibly running around like he should.

Summer Rain

A classmate of Dahin's had a birthday party at the science park across the street from our home. (Dahin is quite popular with the boys, I must say. As we walked up to the party, a while bunch of boys started yelling and running toward us--"Sung Dahin is here! Sung Dahin is here!" Dahin did her usual, "What-ever" look.). It's awesome--an observatory, eco-projects, etc. One problem: It rained about an hour into the party and we found ourselves stranded under one of the building's over-hangs (or whatever you call it). The parents moved the picnic tables under the overhang so that we wouldn't get wet, but the rain headed towards us, anyway. The kids, however, decided to keep partying. It was so fun to watch them run around like maniacs in the rain and spray each other with water guns, play soccer, and get totally soaked.
This little girl is one of Dahin's friends and she followed Dahin around during the party. It was sweet to see the girls talking to Dahin and, when they realized she didn't understand exactly, they were really patient and said what they were saying a different way. We've been really lucky; the school environment overall has been incredibly supportive.
The kids went crazy--it was fabulous to see them turning the rain, something that could have ruined the party, into something that made the party even more fun.
Despite the fact that it was raining, water guns were employed in a battle extra-ordinaire. Like getting sprayed with water would matter....A group of boys engaged in a soccer match pretty much the whole time. When the thunder arrived and some lightening appeared, we had to encourage the boys to get out of the rain.
The little guy, below, did not want to get wet. He stayed under his umbrella the whole time and watched the other kids play.
In Cal-i-FOR-nya (how the kids say it, emphasis on the "for"), the kids only experienced lightening and thunder once. I can't really explain why there is no thunder and lightening when it rains there (although my friend Zoe could probably pull a scientific explanation out of thin air), but probably has something to do with it's location, elevation, blah-blah-blah...We only heard it once. We were at the library on a rainy day in October and suddenly we heard a massive clap of thunder and saw a burst of lightening. The kids all said, "Mommy, what was that?" And the librarian (who hailed from Indiana) and I explained that it was thunder, reminding me of how teachers and parents explained sunshine in that Isaac Asimov story about the kids who lived indoors all the time on another planet (right?) because it rained non-stop; some had never seen sunshine because it only appeared once every few years (right?). I love that story; though I can't remember the title or the exact details. I remember feeling sorry for the little girl who came from earth (right?) and had seen sunshine. All the other kids were jealous and shut her up in the closet during the 30 minutes or so that sunshine appeared, not to show up again for a long time. Any--way...since the rainy season has begun here, the kids have been fully exposed to massive downpours with plenty of lightening and thunder to back them up. Dahin's preemptive strategy to shield against the surprise of the sound is to cover her ears. Summer rain, as well, is a new phenomenon for them because California's summer is the 'dry season.'
Oliver decided, why watch when I can get soaked, too? So, Dahin went out to retrieve him.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Photos with my new camera

Sadly, I had to relinquish the camera from UC Berkeley. The university has a policy that an item over a certain cost must stay with the university. A bit unfair since some people who got computers got to keep them. But, the Canon EOS 5 cost, with the lense, over $4,000.00. They let me take it to Korea for a few more months to take some research photos and I handed it over at a Korean Studies symposium the Center for Korean Studies held jointly with Korea University. Honestly, I didn't know how to use it to its full capacity. It's a professional camera and really requires some know-how. I was just learning some of the ins and outs. To replace it, I used my research money here at SNU to buy one of the top of the line CONSUMER cameras (NOT a professional camera), the Canon 450D (the Rebel in the US). I really like it. My friend Peter, who is an amateur photog and recently won the Korea Herald photo contest, said that the 450D (his camera, too) is a great camera to cut your teeth on. Plus, you can buy lenses that will really allow you to experiment. So far, I can't tell much of a difference between it and the 5, besides the price (a good $3,500 difference), except I really miss my wide-angle lens. Once I do some work with this camera, I will invest the $100 or so to buy a wide angle lens for this camera. Here are some practice shots.
Breakfast at the Sung's--I can't stomach kimchi and rice for breakfast on a regular basis, and Jack doesn't go for oatmeal. Everybody sort of eats their own thing.
We met Jack, his mom, his sister, and her daughter (our niece) at Insa-dong for lunch. We spent a fun afternoon eye-shopping and eating some pretty good food (although Insa-dong is now infamous in my mind for jacking up prices for 'traditional' wares and food).

Buddy, the continuing saga

Buddy is still here. He's been moved to the space near the management office. I took these pictures from our deck/balcony--we get a good view of Buddy and the kids check up him constantly. He pretty much stays tied up all day, so I know he must be really bored and restless. A woman who lives here has been taking him for morning walks. She walks him without a leash--yikes! That's some confidence handling a big goofy puppy. I took him for a walk this past week when I had time. He really liked it and pooped and peed like crazy. I guess he was so excited to be someplace else besides beneath the stairwell and he doesn't have much room to do his business usually. Kids visit him constantly. The boys like to ride their bikes down near Buddy ((Ronan's bike is at the bottom left of the photo) and kids play ball with him. Buddy now has a chew toy, a leash, dog food, and lots and lots of water. In the photo below, Oliver and one of his many girlfriends (he has 3 or 4) join forces in plans on playing with Buddy. Buddy has not been trained and needs it desperately. He tends to jump up on people because he gets excited to see them. When he does that, though, he scares people off. My leg got scratched up yesterday; I just keep saying "down!" and pushing him down when he does that. I'm not sure what the plan is with Buddy, but I'm guessing at the next community meeting something will be decided. He can't be kept there forever. I really want to take him, but Jack has vetoed the idea several times. And, honestly, with three kids and a busy schedule, it's not a good idea. He needs lots, and lots of attention.

Hooters, Korea


You know, I never set foot into a Hooters (EVER!) in the States. But, while Jack and I were shopping for an MP3 recorder in Yongsan, I thought it might be fun to see what a Hooters in Korea is like. Well, the girls were very nice; happy to pose for many photos. I sent the above photo and another one to Hooter's girl "Hug" through email. I know they do something else besides serve food since they were practicing dance moves near the entrance. I suppose they dance, or something, when the place is busy. The food, well...it was terrible. I got a hamburger and it was the worst hamburger I have ever had. Not sure if it was actual beef in that burger. It rivaled the Lotteria burgers (terrible, terrible) but gets a lower rating because it was more expensive and I had high hopes. Jack's burger was just as bad. The menu is modeled after the US Hooters menu--full of deep friend, cheese-covered food. I can say that I am glad, yes, that I tried it out and, with more confidence, that I will never set foot in another Hooters. Curiosity, gone.